From my series on Cuckqueaning.
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For those who are more familiar with the term “cuckold”, “cuckquean” is the gender opposite term.
She is someone who derives pleasure from witnessing (or hearing about) the sexual proclivities of her partner. It stems from an old English term and was meant to describe a wife who was forced to raise the children of her adulterous husband.
These days, the sexual fetish is much more varied and can include monogamous or polyamorous couples and usually has more to do with the sexual acts themselves (rather than the children or who is raising them).
It is generally accepted as a femme person knowingly being denied sexual acts from her partner while he** enjoys them with others. This usually differs from a swinger or a voyeur due to a humiliating or debasing elements involved.
(** for ease of language I am using “he” when describing the partner of the cuckquean. While the heteronormative cuckquean formation has a femme cuckquean with her masc partner, I think it’s possible for any gender formation to exist within this umbrella )
Some examples:
- He will not have sex with her, but will force her to watch him with others – witnessing how much pleasure he gets from them.
- He might tell her how much better his sexual partners are than her (perhaps mentioning her body, her sexual abilities, dress, etc)
- She might watch in the corner, not allowed to join in or even touch herself.
- She might be required to get the partner ready or clean them up after the acts.
- She might hear about the acts, watch them in video, get dirty letters or look at photos after.
I could come up with a hundred more scenarios – things we have tried and experienced, or I have fantasies about. There are so many creative ways to incorporate our dynamic into our sex lives – especially because we are fond of group dynamics.
I think for me, one of the best parts of cuckqueaning is that I get to explore my voyeuristic proclivities while allowing myself to sink into feelings of jealousy or envy but make them sexually exciting and integrating them into my kink for sexual humiliation.
Everyone gets different things out of this so I’d really be interested in hearing from other cucks and what interests them!
More definitions soon…
My wife is curious of the cuckquean lifestyle when we play she want to watch videos
and she’s most interested in the videos where the female watches while the couple
have sex I’ve told her I would give her what she wants but want her to submit to the female
while were having sex. This excites her she is bi curios at best but me telling her that I would have her lick the females pussy to get it wet for me and have put her face between my legs and watch
as the female rides me so its in her face licking me from my balls to her ass while we fuck. She wants
to take pics and video so she could masturbate to them. Keep her pantry’s and smell as well. And of course she wants to clean us up. We have only talked about this but scared to go to the next level. Was wanting to find a female who is experienced with this fantasy. And as a next step would like to cam or chat on speaker with us and role play this. We are a older couple so finding a real Woman is probably not going to happen but as a fantasy would like to make this happen and it would be beneficial to everyone. Any positive comments would be appreciated. Thank you