Private Lessons & Coaching

We offer private instruction on a variety of kink, BDSM and poly topics. Private lessons may be given to a single person, or more commonly to a top/bottom pair. We can also provided classes to small groups, typically 4-10 people. For larger groups, we offer a variety of workshops.

Instruction may be provided from either the top (Dominant / Sadist) perspective, or from the bottom (submissive / masochist) perspective. Many times our clients will choose to have both aspects chosen in the same session.

Technical skills

Most of these can be taught from the top or bottom perspective, and often both sides will be taught in the same session.

  • Rope bondage
  • Rope suspension
  • Rough body play
  • Take down / capture
  • Non-rope bondage (cuffs, chains, zip ties, etc)
  • Temporary piercings
  • Saline Play
  • Suture Play
  • General medical play
  • Grappling and/or struggle play
  • Captivity scenes
  • Interrogation
  • Canes and other implements
  • Breath play
  • CNC (Consensual non-consent)

Soft Skills

Soft skills can either be taught as a single lesson, or a series of coaching sessions. Contact us to inquire about your specific needs.

  • Scene negotiation
  • Consent practices
  • Negotiation of D/s dynamics
  • Communications
  • Emotional S/m
  • Cuckold / Cuckquean dynamics
  • Risk management
  • Poly practices

How & Where

We prefer to give lessons and coaching in person. This can be at events we travel to, at local spaces, or exceptionally in our homes or client’s homes. We rarely agree to online work, but will occasionally do it with trusted clients when there is no other option.

To start the process, please contact us via email and let us know what type of educational service you are looking for. We will then work with you to determine which of us is best suited to meet your needs, the amount of time involved, and then provide a price. We generally charge on an hourly rate, and can be flexible to meet the circumstances of our clients.