Services

BDSM education

We offer private lessons as well as group workshops on BDSM and kink skills.  Each of us has between 10 and 25 years of experience in the kink community.  We all work constantly to improve our own education and skills.

Our education offerings are all based on showing how we do things in our own play and relationships.  We stress that we can only teach the way we do it, and don’t claim it is the only way.  All of us believe in sharing our knowledge and experience, then letting our students decide what to add to their own toolbox.

Our classes, workshops and lessons are all in areas that we have direct experience with.  We do know many other educators  so may be able to refer you if you are interested in a topic we don’t cover

Workshops

We offer workshops for groups of almost any size.  This can be provided at kink/BDSM conferences, events, local organizations, or even  private groups.  Our class list is constantly expanding, see our full list of kink and BDSM workshops.

Performances

House of O offers performances in shibari / rope bondage, medical play, hook suspension and other edge play.  Performance times can range from 5 minutes to 45 minutes, depending on your requirements.  Often we are asked to provide a performance during a play party that follows one of our workshops.  We are always happy to work with your BDSM organization to come up with something unique and memorable

Private Lessons

Private lessons are available for individuals or small groups.  Typically 1-2 hours long, these can dive deeper into kink / BDSM skills, and allow a level of detail not possible in larger group workshops.  We specialize in teaching medical / sharps play, rope bondage (shibari), and rough body play including grappling.  We can also cover soft skills like negotiations and consent practices, relationship dynamics, emotional sadism/masochism, or ethical cuckold/cuckquean relationships.

Coaching

We offer one on one coaching or mentoring services.  Although normally done in person, there is the possibility of online coaching for those who we can’t see in person.  Some topics we cover are negotiation, consent practices, polyamory practices and dynamics.